Too Revealing

Dear Alisa and Gina,

Simply put, my next door neighbors don’t shut their blinds. Our bedroom faces theirs, and unfortunately we've seen more than we care to on occasion. Should we tell them?

Accidental Voyeurs

If you want to. But before you do think of what you'll do on those evenings when there's nothing to watch on TV. ~ Gina

Just because you notice something doesn't mean you have to say anything. And if it what you see bothers you and you have shades of your own, you can use them. ~ Alisa