Politically Correct

Dear Alisa and Gina,

Since politics is so much in the news today it’s not easy to avoid, and with a mother who has become increasingly outspoken on her political viewpoints, it seems that most family gatherings have a few fiery remarks from all sides of the topic. Sometimes I participate – and sometimes I just want to crawl away. It feels like whatever warmth and pleasure we take in each other’s company is lost as we get pulled further apart by the discussion.  Should I say something? – Up in the Air

My take on your discomfort is that it’s hard for you to disagree deeply with someone you like. And for many of us politics can be very emotional. Before you decide to speak or not I suggest you experiment with your own emotional involvement with the issues that are being raised. It may that what you experience is not what others are experiencing. That being said, it’s also perfectly reasonable to say – this is making me uncomfortable. Can we change the topic? ~ Alisa

Whenever politics come up I just say,  “Hey don’t blame me. I voted for McGovern.” I wasn’t actually old enough to vote for him, but I saw that on a bumper sticker. ~ Gina